tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-44586457146289260352024-03-06T11:36:43.574+08:00~ Fantasy Dreamer ~~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.comBlogger118125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-58038270069642641282015-12-27T00:09:00.001+08:002015-12-27T00:09:28.856+08:00VON:愚人驭人,智者驭己<div class="p0" style="margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">
<span style="font-family: 宋体; letter-spacing: 0pt;">在2014年农历新年期间,某个朋友曾经赠送过我一句话:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 宋体; letter-spacing: 0pt;"><span style="color: red;">愚者驭人,智者驭己</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;">他还跟我说,在职场上,情商比智商来的更重要</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;">那个时候,我还不能理解他所说的话</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;">现在,时隔接近两年后,我渐渐能够理解他所要表达的意思了</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;">这么多年以来,我都知道自己的情商还有很大的进步空间</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;">只是,从小到大接受过的教育里面,只接触过智商</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;">即使没有很高的智商也不要紧,因为还有一句:勤能补拙</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;">可是在我们的教育系统里面,好像没有情商这一块儿</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 宋体;">我不是高情商的人,虽然踏入职场的这几年,我渐渐了解到情商也很重要,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 宋体;">也知道自己低情商,却不知道能怎么做才能真正提升自己的情商?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 宋体;">所谓江山易改,本性难移,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 宋体;">在我有限的知识和认知里,要改掉自己的坏脾气,真的很难</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 宋体;">尽管如此,我还是想改变,让自己成为更好的人</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 宋体;">期待着2016年,希望自己在这一点可以有更好的突破!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 宋体;">丽雯,加油!</span></div>
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~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-70100522115368130882012-07-23T00:06:00.001+08:002012-07-23T00:07:50.278+08:00YUN: 懊恼事与愿违。原本打算查看电话信息/来电,却隔了段时间才读到那句 "R u free?"。。。<br />
真是懊恼极了!<br />
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<懊恼> 改词于 <<煎熬>><br />
早知道 我去看手机<br />
温饱后 眼里就读到 信息<br />
当初我又何必顾虑<br />
那么多杂物和空间 来拖着<br />
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我想要 安静地思考<br />
心头上 让情绪不再 奔跑<br />
心一跳就平衡不了<br />
我关灯还是关不掉 这风暴<br />
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一想到 我就开始懊恼<br />
每一分 每一秒<br />
心在掉 变成虚无多好<br />
叫思念 不要吵<br />
我相信我已经快要 快把懊恼忘掉<br />
跟长乐 再和好<br />
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遇不到 也不需乞讨<br />
这样做 才能把知足 拥抱<br />
在陷得太深的海底<br />
我也只能安抚自己 不逃跑<br />
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我相信我已经快要 是真的我快要<br />
快要可以微笑<br />
去面对 下一个 温饱~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-80984161404419082232012-01-20T12:53:00.003+08:002012-01-20T12:57:51.632+08:00YUN: My Best Wishes to U~<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:130%;">Strong believe in the law of attraction.<br />Good people will attract the good things/matters in life. <br /><br />Good wishes to my Senior for her near future.<br />~Ur guidance and sincere advises are unforgettable, deep in my heart~</span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><br />All the best, Elaine!</span><br /></div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-56924230288832834632012-01-16T12:27:00.002+08:002012-01-16T12:44:26.443+08:00YUN: 祝我生日快乐<div style="text-align: center;"><pre id="best-answer-content" class="reply-text mb10"><span style="font-size:130%;">我知道落<span id="result_box" class="short_text" lang="zh-CN"><span class="">默</span></span>不能改变什么<br />那么让我诚实一点<br />诚实难免有无法控制的宣泄<br />只有<span id="result_box" class="short_text" lang="zh-CN"><span class="">离</span></span><span id="result_box" class="short_text" lang="zh-CN"><span class="">开</span></span><span id="result_box" class="short_text" lang="zh-CN"><span class="">这里</span></span>不必理谁<br />一个人坐在空荡包厢里面 脑袋让它休息一<span id="result_box" class="short_text" lang="zh-CN"><span class="">些</span></span></span><br /><br /><span id="result_box" class="short_text" lang="zh-CN"><span class="">- 待</span></span><span id="result_box" class="short_text" lang="zh-CN"><span class="">续</span></span> -<br /><br /><br /></pre></div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-33723885030300878322012-01-03T12:32:00.002+08:002012-01-03T12:49:28.674+08:00VON:烦躁<span >自己干嘛没事把那么多件事往自己身上扛?</span><div><span >现在好啦,全连在一块,看自己怎么去收拾残局...</span></div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-89914251420864840102011-12-19T23:48:00.004+08:002011-12-20T09:41:25.948+08:00YUN: 幸福 • 如履薄冰<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:130%;">原来不是自己多心,我真的被认为是不可信的。。</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:130%;">以为自己是特别的,其实也只是“别人“之一罢了。。</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><br />幸福,真是如履薄冰。。。</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><br />眼泪,又。。</span></div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-66392883615256785402011-12-06T09:04:00.002+08:002011-12-06T09:50:56.636+08:00YUN: my eyes...<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:130%;">eyes still puffy from crying this morning...</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">not in control though knowing this will be happen+.+ </span><br /></div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-4162236821254721932011-11-27T09:53:00.002+08:002011-11-27T11:51:49.926+08:00VON: 千言万语,却只能尽在不言中<span class="Apple-style-span" >心里有千千万万个对不起,所有鼓励的话语、安慰的话语,到了嘴边,全都变了,已经变得说什么错什么,说也不是,不说也不是,问也不是,不问也不是。我更没想到只是一句很简单的关心,却让你更烦躁!对不起,是我不懂得该如何处理现况。虽然说事情演变成这样,都不是我们想要的,我们谁也没有错,但是此刻除了对不起,我真的不知道还能说什么,因为我连最简单的陪伴也没能力做到!</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >我说过我不会哭,一定不会,绝对不会;可是到后来,看到你这样,我始终不争气,还是没能忍住。对不起,我也不想的,可是除了无奈,还是无奈。当你说不知道该怎么办的时候,我打从心底还是相信你不会就这么被打败,就如我说过:做人不成功,成功也是暂时的,做人成功,失败也只是短暂的。我相信你的能力,绝对、绝对是后者!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >可是我好像只能让你一个人静一静?</span></div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-60355296237670644092011-11-26T00:13:00.002+08:002011-11-26T00:25:39.826+08:00VON: 人生如戏? 戏如人生?<span class="Apple-style-span" >最近的一些事情,让我突然觉得这人生中好像在一部戏,不对,应该说这些事好像是以前在电视荧幕上才看到的,但现在却活生生上演了?</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >也许,是自己经历的少?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >也许,是自己太天真?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >也许,这就叫现实?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >原本以为自己对某些人事物有足够的了解,但原来,接触得多就好像发现新大陆那样? 突然不得不否定之前的看法? 可是之前的观点却没变,只是说,发掘了新的一面?看到更多? 在这个时候还是否能够像以前那样大声说出自己的信念呢?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >也许,我就只适合呆在那个单纯的世界里? 继续活在"荧幕"外?</span></div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-1529542161594661422011-11-18T00:39:00.004+08:002011-11-18T00:54:00.166+08:00VON: 2010年4月9日的心情??<span class="Apple-style-span" >在电脑档案里面突然看到这么一篇东西,应该是2010年4月9日写的吧?</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div><div class="Section0"><p class="p0" style="margin-bottom:0pt; margin-top:0pt; "><i><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span style="font-family: 宋体; ">忽然瞄见其中一篇刚开学时写到一半的<span>blog</span></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; "><o:p></o:p></span></span></i></p><p class="p0" style="margin-bottom:0pt; margin-top:0pt; "><i><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span style="font-family: 宋体; ">其中说到刚开学的第三天,发现自己见到合唱团的朋友还多过自己的系友</span><span style="font-family: 宋体; "><o:p></o:p></span></span></i></p><p class="p0" style="margin-bottom:0pt; margin-top:0pt; "><i><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span style="font-family: 宋体; ">其实整个学期过下来,没错,我的确跟合唱团的人接触的还蛮多的。。当然,也许这次的比赛是在第<span>12</span><span>周的关系吧。。开学的</span><span>12</span><span>周以来,几乎每周都有练习,想见不到他们都很难吧?比赛一完,我就拼命的在赶毕业论文了,忙到、累倒、</span><span>stress</span><span>到。。我都不会说了。。应该说,那段期间,一天睡</span><span>4</span><span>小时来说已经很多了。。我从来都没想过,原来睡觉也可以变得很奢侈。同时,在</span><span>FB</span><span>看到有些朋友说闷到发慌,当下的我,真得很想说:“那你可以代替我多睡一下吗?”可是应该不可能吧?</span></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; "><o:p></o:p></span></span></i></p><p class="p0" style="margin-bottom:0pt; margin-top:0pt; "><i><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span style="font-family: 宋体; ">今天,终于把论文交了上去。。这种<span>relief</span><span>的感觉,怎么样也说不上来,虽然说,到下星期一还有考试,也还欠下一堆的功课还没交,但整个人就是轻松了下来,很想大喊:“</span></span><span style="font-family: 'MS Mincho'; ">よかった!!</span><span style="font-family: 宋体; ">”说到这个,就想起不久前,<span>Ryota</span><span>跟我说过他的论文搞定了以后,</span></span><span style="font-family: 'MS Mincho'; ">よかった!!</span><span style="font-family: 宋体; ">我想我体验到他说的那句话了。。呵呵</span><span style="font-family: 宋体; "><o:p></o:p></span></span></i></p><p class="p0" style="margin-bottom:0pt; margin-top:0pt; "><i><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span style="font-family: 宋体; ">说着说着。。我的大学生涯就要告一段落了。。或许因为一直在赶论文,累倒忘了去享受大学生涯里的最后一周。。是的,要结束了,我不是应该感到不舍的吗?为什么到现在都没有这种感觉呢?是不是因为我跟现在身边的人不够熟的关系呢?还没好到离别时会感到伤感。。又或许因为家就在附近,所以感觉上好像随时都可以回来。。但我似乎忘了可以随时回来的并不是每一个人。。又或许,最近混熟的那群人都还没毕业,所以到他们毕业前我都还可以随时找他们??</span><span style="font-family: 宋体; "><o:p></o:p></span></span></i></p><p class="p0" style="margin-bottom:0pt; margin-top:0pt; "><span style="font-family: 宋体; " ><i><o:p></o:p></i></span></p><p class="p0" style="margin-bottom:0pt; margin-top:0pt; "><span style="font-family: 宋体; " ><i>如果是,那也就只有合唱团了。。我以后会以<span>super senior</span><span>的身份回去吗?在这以前,玖舍合唱团还能成团吗?还是会解散一年都还是未知数。。其一原因:没有人要留下来了。。。我是不是真得那么热爱合唱呢?我自己也说不上来,只知道自己离不开。。甚至在日本的期间,还是参与了那里的合唱团。。如果我在马大没有参加合唱团,我不知道我的大学生活会有何不同。。只知道,现在的我,除掉合唱,除掉课业,再除了第二年参与的</span><span>MPMUM</span><span>,我的大学生活只剩下空壳了。。</span></i></span><span style="mso-spacerun:'yes'; font-size:10.5000pt; font-family:'宋体'; "><o:p></o:p></span></p></div></div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-90456814076083864792011-11-12T21:03:00.003+08:002011-11-12T23:21:30.706+08:00VON: 祝贺大姐新婚愉快<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqXjKNxlzQtrTLQLgu7XFn_QfN0fVc8awKp8dGaVDc9BCkBV8EZ_CmW20Hg1KjYVY_XEhSqEx1Pd3H97UkmKa4pizSJZrDHsK3CXDbfLgrqYofnWibeYAOUTl374xO2EyN4kDrab0XyaZs/s1600/DSCF8772.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqXjKNxlzQtrTLQLgu7XFn_QfN0fVc8awKp8dGaVDc9BCkBV8EZ_CmW20Hg1KjYVY_XEhSqEx1Pd3H97UkmKa4pizSJZrDHsK3CXDbfLgrqYofnWibeYAOUTl374xO2EyN4kDrab0XyaZs/s320/DSCF8772.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5674096421174237714" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" >如题,在这里献上最真诚的祝福给淑珍大姐~~!!</span><div>愿大姐以后都开开心心、幸福地过着每一天!!</div><div>不管是天荒地老还是海枯石烂,都能白头偕老,永远幸福 ^^</div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-89157117645269466372011-11-08T16:37:00.010+08:002011-11-12T23:23:17.602+08:00VON: 无商不奸?<span class="Apple-style-span" >什么时候才有更多人懂得怎么“思利及人”呢?</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >某家长说过希望可以是长久性的“合作”,但是在这场“交易”上,我是亏的一方,而且亏得很惨,你觉得我该怎么样继续呢?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >先是不讲信用,现在还要拖着我的钱??你有钱是你家的事,我还需要它来过生活!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >我已经配合给与所有我能给的方便,结果这些就换来了你们的得寸进尺?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >他X的!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >当我只是慢了一点点回复你的电邮,还给你说了一顿,你又不是我老板还以这样的口气和我说话,但当时我也已经忍了,现在到我跟你收回我的报酬,你却只字不提,电邮不回,sms也没消息,电话又不接,接了又说转头给我回电话,但结果呢?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >拜托,我的工作不是追数佬,OK? 你不嫌烦我嫌烦!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >当初要不是不得不向现实低头?应该坚守<span class="Apple-style-span" >宁缺毋滥</span>这个原则!</span></div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-83289298227128718032011-09-11T19:46:00.002+08:002011-09-11T20:06:28.449+08:00VON: 无处发泄!!<span class="Apple-style-span" >有些人、事、物,喜欢就喜欢,不喜欢就是不喜欢,没来由的。</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >不要因为你的个人喜好,觉得他/她/它好,也要身边的人一样喜欢!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >只要是无害的,我也有我的权利去选择</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >已经不止一次向你表明我的立场/想法:某个领域,我没兴趣</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >为什么还要软硬兼施让我去接触它?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >少来跟我说这个好、那个好。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >我知道全是为我好</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >可是好的东西有很多,在这些好里面,我应该有权利选择自己喜欢的吧?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >我知道现在这条路不好走,可是我愿意!!!!!!!!!!!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >既然当初支持了,就不能继续支持到底吗?????</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" >能不能不要一边说支持,一边却拼命泼冷水,然后又说你其实没有阻止我,接着再把你的想法套在我身上?</span></div><div><br /></div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-23437406663426847512011-08-28T10:06:00.004+08:002011-08-28T10:21:47.900+08:00VON: 谢谢你们<span class="Apple-style-span">近期内让我最、最感动的一段话:</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span">我们不只是你的senior,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span">不只是你的朋友,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span">有什么东西都好,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span">都可以来问我们,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span">不要自己一个傻傻在那边。。。。。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span">
<br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span">谢谢你们!!</span></div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-62596231108627608012011-08-09T11:50:00.003+08:002011-08-09T12:00:45.082+08:00YUN: Finally...<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:130%;">sent out my resume to an interested company~</span>
<br />
<br /><span style="font-size:130%;">I think this is the <span style="font-size:180%;">1st resume</span> I had been sent out in my entire career life.
<br />Frankly, is a combination feeling of expectant, nervous, and a little of being impressed by myself that I had FINALLY step out my 1st step^0^ </span>
<br />
<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:100%;" >~ Cheers with me, guys ~</span>
<br /></div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-14441822026226439532011-08-06T18:07:00.003+08:002011-08-06T18:50:51.520+08:00VON: 玩你的人 vs 爱你的人<span class="Apple-style-span" ><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; line-height: 13px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><div id="blogContainer" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; position: relative; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; height: 722px; "><div id="blogDetailDiv" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">转载的。但看完以后莫名地想起一些人。。。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">玩你的人:半夜会找你打电话聊天到很晚。 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">爱你的人:会告诉你不要聊那么晚。 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">玩你的人:他会找你出去玩,叫你放弃正事。 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">爱你的人:他会催你好好工作,踏踏实实。 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">玩你的人:在你生病时,会讲好话关心你。 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">爱你的人:在你生病时,他会关心到你烦,并强迫你去看医生。 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">玩你的人:他会尽量说好话来讨好你,你也会觉得很开心。 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">爱你的人:他所说的话,都是关心你的,但是通常象是在命令。 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">玩你的人:他什么事情都会配合你,只要你开心。 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">爱你的人:他会帮你辨别是非,但是你会感觉他管的太多。 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">玩你的人:他说他要给你最大的快乐。 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">爱你的人:他只能给你保证,你跟他在一起,他是最快乐的。 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">玩你的人:他在意你的生活细节,即使你做错了什么,他也不会指出来。 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">爱你的人:他在意你的一举一动,告诉你什么地方错了,什么地方该如何做,该如何与别人交往。 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">玩你的人:他不会在意你去做什么,与什么人交往。 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">爱你的人:他很在意你去做什么,与什么人交往。他还会告戒你不要与什么人交往 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">玩你的人:他只想要现在 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">爱你的人:他已经预见未来,该怎么自我努力,好好给你幸福。 </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">玩你的人:他会说“我喜欢你!” </p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.6; ">爱你的人:他会说“我爱你。</p></div></div></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; line-height: 15px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">如果,你爱过或者被爱过,那么,你会感到这些话千真万确。</span></b></span>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-27681657663994309652011-08-06T00:56:00.002+08:002011-08-06T01:53:43.658+08:00VON: writings and memoriesit's been a long time for not writing anything.<div>just as i was doing 'house keeping' for my computer, i randomly found a lot of unpublished blog posts. or i would rather say 99% of these are the incomplete ones.</div><div><br /></div><div>we used to say that memories shall be well kept in our heart, but do we actually remember each and every single moment of those sweet and bitter memories??</div><div><br /></div><div>i used to say that and i thought that i will never forget those memories.</div><div>but i found myself wrong when i read back the published and/or unpublished posts</div><div>be it completed or half way tergantung ones.</div><div><br /></div><div>through these posts, we kept our memories in the form of words and via these wordings, we visualized the scenes again N years later.</div><div>suddenly felt that it's such a wonderful thing to do. isn't it??</div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-58980248519309571042011-07-13T11:47:00.002+08:002011-07-13T12:02:47.092+08:00VON:讨厌肚子饿!讨厌肚子饿!<div>唯一原因 - 那会大大影响我的心情!</div><div>尤其是肚子饿但又没东西吃的时候</div><div><br /></div><div>大家明明同时吃了同量的食物,几小时后。。。</div><div>你不觉得饿不代表我也跟你一样还是饱到吃不下!</div><div>我很饿!!明明有吃东西但还是会饿!!</div><div>不要问我为什么</div><div>每个人的体质都不一样</div><div>如果你问我为什么会饿,那我也一样会问你为什么你不会饿?</div><div>是你有问题还是我有问题?</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-18807001986544803992011-07-11T13:04:00.005+08:002011-07-14T13:46:51.911+08:00YUN: Learn Something Today -- From Hatred to Compassion<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:130%;">What to do if you find yourself getting angry and feeling that most awful of emotions hate? Well, practice<span style="font-weight: bold;"> <span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);">turning that hate into compassion</span></span>. And don’t think that means becoming complacent and not doing what you need to do to protect yourself and others without becoming that which you hate in the process. </span><br /><span style="text-decoration: underline;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">http://humanisthappiness.blogspot.com/2010/01/turning-hate-into-compassion.html</span></span><br /><span style="text-decoration: underline;"></span></div><a href="http://web02.gonzaga.edu/againsthate/Journal%207/Eppinga.pdf"></a>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-26433619219204067682011-06-21T11:27:00.003+08:002011-06-21T11:50:27.087+08:00YUN: my FAVORITE coffee came back again^-^<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:130%;">Starbucks? The Coffee Bean? Old Town? </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Kakakaaa, NOPE!!</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">as long as the coffee is from Hoon, then is my cup of favorite^-^</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Smuaksssss"@"</span><br /></div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-4391761338695015162011-06-09T09:21:00.003+08:002011-06-09T09:35:40.399+08:00YUN: 人,最重要是有事可做, 有人可爱, 有梦可 想。<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:130%;">The line is quoted from some where else, seems meaningful~<br />And i think the 1st 2, is what i currently doing and having now, left the last -- <span style="font-weight: bold;">dream</span>.<br /><br />Perhaps can find that fantastic DREAM, in near future^-^<br /><br /><span style="font-size:100%;">~ Do Bless Me ~</span><br /></span></div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-59431159583813223552011-04-22T09:05:00.002+08:002011-04-22T09:41:58.786+08:00YUN: smuaks~<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span id="result_box" class="short_text" lang="zh-CN"><span class="" title="Click for alternate translations">今天</span><span class="" title="Click for alternate translations"></span></span>某<span id="result_box" class="short_text" lang="zh-CN"><span class="" title="Click for alternate translations">人</span><span class="" title="Click for alternate translations">很</span><span class="" title="Click for alternate translations"></span></span>帅哦<span style="font-weight: bold;">!</span></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span>再次<span id="result_box" class="short_text" lang="zh-CN"><span class="" title="Click for alternate translations">爱上你</span></span>, smuaks"@"</span><br /></div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-42195193601315912782011-03-30T23:19:00.003+08:002011-03-31T00:18:05.331+08:00YUN:把握现在,活在当下?<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:130%;">没有经历过你所诉起的;说能感同身受是不可能的。<br /><br />只知道从我进来到现在,都会听到身边的人说起,<br />以前酱酱酱,之前酱酱酱。<br />Adeline Soo:以前好景时,同事有上50位;<br />Elaine:以前这个teambuilding好好玩啦,<br />那个genting trip 怎样啦;<br />Rafidah:之前这个facility啦,那个benefit啦;<br />Ina /Padma: 而这些只剩下甜美回忆。。。<br />大家话当年的说词大同小异,但都有个共同点:<br />都是笑着说起当年。<br /><br />是不是每个人事务,都逃不过缘起缘灭的规律?<br />是不是每个人事务,就好像你说的:<br />当你拥有它时,就要有心理准备失去它;<br />只是早或迟得分别而已?<br /><br />如是这样,我想。。。<br />把握现在,活在当下;<br />是我们活着在这世上的生存之道咯?<br /></span></div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-72472908302499145392011-03-29T07:09:00.005+08:002011-04-05T13:29:55.069+08:00YUN: 那时哭 ... ...<div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><span style="font-size:130%;">那时哭,不是做出愚蠢的决定;那时哭,是因为有人在呵护着;在意着你快不快乐。 <span style="font-size:100%;">~ <span style="FONT-STYLE: italic">sarang heyo</span>,<span style="FONT-STYLE: italic">hoon</span> ~</span></span> </div>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4458645714628926035.post-46605971488147586332011-03-28T06:13:00.002+08:002011-03-28T06:17:42.587+08:00YUN:太阳依然灿烂 地球继续转<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:130%;">心情好心情坏怎么开始怎么办<br />你有的不爽让我来分担<br />everything gonna be alright<br />tomorrow will be fine<br />太阳依然灿烂地球继续转<br />有我的陪伴你再也不孤单<br /><br />卫冕者接受挑战难免也会失败<br />人生像一场比赛还是要保持乐观<br />请你把头抬起来帮你把勇气装满<br />有我这样完美的朋友<br />high不high 当然很high<br />啦.......</span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span class="question-title"><span style="font-family: monospace;"><br /><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold;">《五月天 终结孤单》</span></span></span></div><pre class="reply-text mb10" id="content-495077810"></pre>~ Fantasy Dreamer ~http://www.blogger.com/profile/13829662130518258441noreply@blogger.com2